Against to the stereotype.
During the years, people have
been created their “idealized perfect couple”, and also stereotypes in order to
define the person created in their minds, even if they are women or males, those
stereotypes are focusing only in the typical physical characteristics, but that
is not going to define the person that your heart will chose, your perfect
partner is not going to be someone that will love for how you look, furthermore
the most that we find in a person is confidence, love and the most closed to a
soulmate, even if this is just a myth, human’s heart and minds, still thinking
in it even though if they knew the truth.
And believed or not, people are
constantly believing that having a perfect couple is going to be the easiest
thing in life, I mean the way that we will manage this situation and how the
relationship will work with the past of the years, because we pretend that the
hard work, and problems are things that only affect at the first stage of it,
but an experience of (Cabaniss, 2017) it’s against that
opinion.
She said “Good relationships take
hard work. Sustaining a relationship over years is not for the faint of heart.”
And if we starting analyzing it, this is one of the main reasons of why the
people can’t find their “perfect couple” or “perfect relationship” because they
don’t want to work in it at all, even if at their first stage they knew that
this will be difficult, because the goal of finding the imperfect person, is
the process of learning themselves and construct the stairs to achieve those
real stereotypes that scream in their heads. (Sánchez, J. 2017)
Cabaniss, D. (03 de 03
de 2017). HUFFPOST. Obtenido de
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